Island House Needlepoint in Connecticut has designed a stainless steel laying tool with a blunt tip that might be perfect. It will stick to a needle minder and is well balanced and comfortable in your hand.
They are made in Connecticut. I don't know the length (it looks too long for my small hands) but I'm sure the shop can tell you more about it if you have questions.
One can never have enough laying tools!
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